Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Snow Anyone??

Southern Maryland is getting hit with record snow this winter.  We are in the midst of our second major winter storm this week and a blizzard at that.  We had a major snow storm (15-16 inches) in December.  We never have snow for Christmas.  The kids have gone from joyful glee at having a white Christmas to "Oh no!!  More Shovelling!?!?"  These pictures are actually from the December storm.  Our public services are having a hard time keeping up with everything from clearing the roads to repairing electrical lines. 

The snow has given us plenty of time at home to get some major school work done.  It has also gifted us with extra Daddy time.  I have been blessed with time to catch up on household chores and organizational tasks that needed to be done.  Thank you, Lord, for your provision for us.  Thank you for the opportunity to serve others in clearing our road and delivering provisions via our 4 wheel drive. 

The comical part of this is that our oldest son, Matt, is away at college in Merrimack, NH.  He has gotten no snow the last 2 weeks.  I sent him pictures via my phone of what our yard looks like and he could not belive it!

Monday, February 8, 2010

The Serial Splasher



I was looking at these photos today and it brought back the memories of this bath time. The 3 little boys were so excited to have their baby brother, Joshua, in the tub with them for the first time. I was just excited that I could get all 4 washed at once. Everyone was playing nicely until they realized that Joshua was....drum roll please....a serial splasher. He absolutely loves to splash. You can see the expressions on Jeremiah, Patrick and Phillip's faces that they are not too sure they like having him in the tub anymore.

This made me think about why we are here. Are we here to just swim safely around in our little pond, not making too many waves or does God want us to be bold and make some splashes? What about you? What kind of splashes has God called you to make today?

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

A Hodge Podge






A fireman, a policeman and a knight-I am ready for any trouble that comes my way whether it be criminal, fire or fire-breathing dragon my little guys are ready to do battle. They all told me yesterday that they were going to marry me! I told them Daddy might have a problem with it.

Life has been busy. Last week we had vacation bible school. All of the older children from Caleb on up volunteered to help out. The three little guys participated and had a great time. The baby hung out with me and helped me to run crafts. By the end of the day he was so exhausted from everybody oohing and aweing over him that he slept for several hours in the afternoon.

Our son, Zack, started regular football practice this week and has been practicing from 7-9am and then again in the evenings from 5:30-7:30. Thank the Lord Matt is driving and has been able to help me with this. I am teaching Zack to drive right now so he can hopefully get his permit within the next month. In our state, you have to have 60 hours of recorded driving and take a two week driver education class before you can go to take your driving test. Zack's head football coach is a minister and he and his wife see the football team as part of their ministry. I am really encouraged by their commitment and example. In our county if you homeschool, you cannot participate in anything offered by the public schools including varsity sports. This team is actually in the neighboring county and is associated with a private school. So, Zack has been enjoying being a part of a team as they have worked on conditioning over the summer. I have never seen a kid enjoy getting sweaty and physically worn out as much as he has.

We have been catching up on many things this week as we recovered from VBS including the house work. It feels so good to have a clean house and the laundry caught up. Now, I just have to work on my lesson plans for the year.

Joshua is supposed to visit with his birth mom this week. We agreed to four visits a year. All of our adoptions are open. She has not seen him since we took placement in February. I will ask if she feels comfortable with me sharing with you all. Keep her in your prayers. She is very young and has been through a lot.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Hair Cuts, Anyone????








Several days ago after continuous urging by my wonderful husband over the past two years, I took the plunge and gave the three little boys a hair cut. I don't know why I have never learned to do this. It is not like we have a shortage of boy heads to learn on. It is just the learning part of it I was afraid of. After all, it would not be me who would have to have a horrible looking hair cut. It was also a pride issue because I enjoy my children looking nice and neat when we are out and about. However, with the slow down in the economy, multiple adoption fees and college tuition, we have lost our pride and are cutting corners wherever we can. My wonderful husband works in the building industry running a window and door factory and people are just not buying right now. Thankfully, the company he works for is stable and they have been earning enough to cover pay roll and bills. Praises sent up above for this because Paul has people call him every day looking for work.

Sooo, let's get back to the topic. I decided I could do this. However, my little boys picked up on the fact that I was nervous about it and decided that they would not do this. It was quite humorous watching them run in the opposite direction as I got out the clippers and read the directions. My devoted and loving Patrick did not let Mommy down. He offered himself up to be the first guinea pig. The first picture directly above is of him on the way to the hypothetical guilllotine. Once Phillip and Jeremiah saw that Patrick had survived and didn't look too bad, they took the plunge. I only included the top picture of Jeremiah pouting because it showed the finished product. I even have some of the older boys asking me to give them a trim.

Next project ........learning to make my own laundry soap beause there's a whole lot of washin' goin' on around here. Does anybody have any other thrifty ideas??

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

All Grown Up




I couldn't resist posting the top picture. We gave Joshua a spoon and he knew exactly what to do with it. I love the expression on his face. The next picture is of our oldest son, Matt and our youngest, Joshua. There are 18 years between the two of them. The next picture is of our second oldest son, Zack and Jeremiah on Zack's 16th birthday last week. He let Jer blow out a candle. In searching for pictures of my girls, I realized they have been dodging the camera. I told them to watch out that I would be hunting them down.

Our oldest son, Matt, got his welcome packet for college this past week. He leaves August 29 for a small liberal arts college up north. It suddenly hit me that he would be gone. I mean as in 11 hours away gone. He is our first to fly the nest. Next year, Zack will be graduating our homeschool. The year after that will be Melissa's turn and the year after that will be Sherita's. The one thing that keeps going through my head is have we prepared them for the world. After all these years of homeschooling, it is time to let go. I never thought I would be one of those clingy mothers who would have a difficult time seeing their children grow up and leave home, but I understand now. Raising children is an intense labor of love if you do it the way God intends. I pray for the grace and wisdom to help my children make the transition into adulthood and to encourage them to stay on the narrow path that leads to true happiness.



Friday, July 24, 2009

Images of God



I have been meditating lately on how we are all images of God. We are all made in His image. Red, yellow, black or white, we are all reflections of our Creator. In Genesis, we are told how He created humankind in His own image. It brings me back to this, "and one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. 'Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?' He said to him, ' "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind." This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." On these two commandments hang all the law and prophets.' Matthew 22:35-40 So, essentially, we are called to see God in all those around us and love them selflessly. This can truly be a test of our faith because if we wholly and faithfully love our God, then it should reflect in our treatment of those around us. I use this with my children often. I encourage them to see their siblings as images of God and to love them selflessly. I will jokingly say to them, "That is not your little brother on the potty waiting to be wiped, that is Jesus!" It often makes those unpleasant tasks so much easier because we are doing them out of love for our Lord.

I have often been asked by acquaintances how I get my children to be so helpful. This is the result of years of training. We are called to, "Train children in the right way, and when old, they will not stray." Proverbs 22:6 I do not encourage them to seek employment in their high school years, but to seek service opportunities. Our oldest son, Matt, just finished high school with over six hundred service hours. Society encourages our teenagers to be incredibly focused on themselves. We have taught them from a very young age to have the heart of a servant and to be focused on the needs of others. Our Savior became a servant and sacrificed His life on the cross for us, so who are we to consider ourselves to be too good to humble ourselves.

Most years we attend the March for Life in Washington, DC. It is held on the anniversary of Roe v. Wade which is in January. Thousands and thousands of people invade our nation's capital and stand around for hours in what is usually the freezing cold waiting for the march to start. Before the march, we usually try to attend the youth mass held at the Verizon Center. One year, Steve Agrisano, who is a Christian music performer shared a story told to him by a close friend. This friend felt called to go and serve with Mother Teresa's Missionaries of Charity in Calcutta. He was disappointed to discover that Mother was out of the country when he arrived. He spent two weeks helping in one of the houses, but had never gone out into the street to do direct care of the poor. On his last day in Calcutta, there was a knock on the door to his room and he opened it and was surprised to see Mother Teresa standing there. She told him to come with her and he obediently followed. She took him out into the streets of Calcutta. They quickly came upon a man lying in his own filth in the street. He appeared close to death. Mother asked Steve's friend to pick the beggar up and despite his reservations, he obeyed. When they arrived back, Mother Teresa instructed him to bathe the man and make him comfortable. He gently bathed the man's emaciated body and picked him up out of the tub and wrapped him in a towel. He looked into the man's face and the man opened his eyes for the first time and then it was no longer the beggar's face he saw, but the face of Christ. He was shaken and overwhelmed by what he had seen. He sat in a rocking chair and rocked the man and as he did so, the poor man took his last breath and died. Mother Teresa came back in the room. She looked at him still holding the poor beggar in his lap and said, "You saw Him, didn't you?" His reply was a simple, "Yes." May we all be called to see the face of Christ in those around us.

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Working Man

Our oldest son, Matt, recently started working at a local grocery store. He is heading off to college this Fall and is saving every penny for his college tuition. The years have flown by and I cannot believe he is finally "grown up". I remember when he was born, I never thought past that newborn stage. Look at him now. He towers over me and is quite pleased by this. He calls me "short" all the time and will put his arm around me and peer down at me.

Matt helped with a talk we gave on adoption at our church earlier this year. He started his part by saying, "My parents have five teenagers, three preschoolers and a nine year old right now, so any prayers you might want to throw their way would be greatly appreciated." The congregation laughed. Matt has always been supportive of our adoptions. In fact, most of our children say they hope to adopt some day. How incredible would that be if adoption became a muti-generational tradition for our family!

Here is a humorous anecdote. A co-worker of Matt's saw him come into the store on his day off with his sister, Melissa. Well, next time Matt was working with this young man, he asked Matt if the girl with him that day was his girlfriend. Matt said, "No, that was my sister." The young man said, "Oh, I see the resemblance now." (I can only assume this resemblance was that they both have curly hair.) Matt replied to his co-worker, "She's adopted." The young man then said a bit embarassed, "OK, I'll just shut up now." I thought this was very cute.